How to Get Any Boy to Fall in Love With You

Love how you look. If you want a boy to fall in love with you, he has to grow to love all of you, inside and out, but the outside is a great place to start. If you love the way that you look and are proud of your appearance, then the boy will be able to tell and will start to love how you look, too. If you are not happy with your appearance, you may need to spend some time working on loving yourself before you try to attract a boy.

• Wear clothes that make you feel pretty andcomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable or self-conscious in tight clothes, then it'll show. If you see a sweatshirt that is on sale and you think he will notice it, go ahead and buy it if you can!
• Don't cake on the makeup! Your true love won't admire that if you do that. He'll want your natural beauty.

Have a positive energy. Any boy will be much more likely to fall in love with you if you love what you do and feel more positive about the things in your life. If you make it known that you're happy pursuing your interests, schoolwork, or career, then he'll be more inclined to want to get to know you.^[2]

• If you're in school, don't complain about your classes and teachers. Instead, focus on the things you do love and why they make you happy.

Love who you are. Getting someone to love you if you don’t love yourself may be impossible. If you want a boy to fall in love with you, then you have to love who you are and be proud of the person you're becoming. To love yourself, try some of the following techniques:^[3]

• Understand your strengths. Think of the top five things that make you remarkable -- write them down, if you have to. Then, use them to your advantage. Make the most of your good attributes by showing them off as much as possible. For example, if you know you have an amazing sense of humor, then flaunt it in front of your boy.

Develop confidence. As you work on loving how you look, loving what you do, and loving who you are, your confidence will skyrocket. If you're confident and comfortable with yourself, your boy will feel more confident about you as well.^[4] To project your confidence, learn to speak clearly, stand up for yourself, and be comfortable enough with yourself to laugh at yourself now and then.

• Remember that there's a difference between being confident and being arrogant. If you end up bragging about how great you are all the time, then that will be a turn off as well.

Be fun. If you want a boy to love you, then you have to look like a fun person to be around. Whenever he sees you, you should have a big smile on your face, do something silly, and be giggling or laughing with a group of friends. If you're a fun person, you'll become magnetic, and more people will want to hang around you because it'll be a guaranteed good time.^[5]